I was the personal assistant to three women at a large non-profit. I didn't unwrap their forks because I didn't spend 4 years in college and wasn't hired to be someone's bitch. I was hired to smooth out any areas of distraction from their projects.\n\nYour partner is acting like one of those scumbags who hires a "personal assistant" when they really want a girlfriend/wife/mommy they don't have to treat as an equal.