Yeah sure, I get that. But if the girl/guy consented. They’re midway through, he/she does something the other don’t like, and they’re quiet about it/doesn’t have enough confidence to revoke consent or tell the partner that violates their boundaries. Is it fair to go around your friends and say you were raped when you willingly went into intercourse but never revoked it, just felt like you revoked it. How would the “offender” know he has been crossing the boundaries if the “victim” doesn’t fully express physically/verbally and just goes with it because he/she feels like that’s the only way.