When I lived in Italy, I used to get hit on by men wearing tight purple pants and lady gaga shirts, holding purses. I face palmed the one time, as a pair were strattling each other on a moped. \n\nAfter that moment, a friend and I came up with a game - "gay or Italian" - not that you can't be both, but the name is better than the pc alternative\n\nedit: I'm female - while I am 5'8 and a size 2, I felt like I could crush some of these men.