The odd thing is that a lot of women think that men are just naturally confident and at ease, when in reality very few are, but they have to pretend to be because they've long since learned that they have to be very conservative in showing weakness around women they're interested in, because [women are as merciless with weak men as men are with ugly women](http://www.hookingupsmart.com/2011/03/21/relationshipstrategies/why-we-shit-test/).